Author Archives: Jay Butchko
What Dads Should Do If They Want More Parenting Time
In a divorce with children, the parents have to decide on custody or else the court will do it for them. It goes without saying that the mothers tend to get primary custody of the children, but it’s not because of gender. It’s because of wrong assumptions. Many men don’t have a good understanding… Read More »
Why Marriage is Tougher Than Ever
Getting married is not hard for some people, but staying married — well, that’s a different story. In the past decade, society has changed. We’re busier than ever. We live in the era of social media, and there are more distractions than ever. Media is convincing you that unhealthy relationships are the norm. If… Read More »
Do You Need a Divorce Doula?
Divorce is not easy. For those going through one for the first time, it can be nerve-wracking. What do you do? What mistakes should you avoid? While most people use lawyers to guide them through the process, sometimes a person needs a little emotional support. That’s when a doula comes in. When you think… Read More »
What Not to Text Your Ex During a Divorce
When you were happily married to your spouse, you may have exchanged witty texts, inside jokes, funny GIFs, and maybe even sultry sexts. Now that you are divorcing, these casual and fun communications will likely go by the wayside. Divorce changes pretty much everything, and texting is no exception. Communication during a divorce is… Read More »
Financial Planning After a Divorce
A divorce is no easy feat. It’s not like you can just pick up your belongings and move on. It’s a lot more difficult to end a relationship when you’re married. You have to go through a huge process, which involves splitting assets, understanding your financial situation, and possibly moving out of the marital… Read More »
Divorcing With Children: Making the Best of It
Making the decision to divorce is one of the biggest decisions a person will face in their lives. Ending a marriage is not something that is taken lightly, especially when children are involved. Many parents refuse to pull the trigger on divorce, instead deciding to wait until the children are grown. But this can… Read More »
When to Consider a Prenup After Marriage
Marriage is a huge deal. It’s something that’s supposed to last forever, but it doesn’t half of the time. Because of the risks involved in a divorce, many people want to protect their financial security. Many couples consider a prenuptial agreement before marriage. This is a legal document that details assets and debts and… Read More »
Preparing for Divorce
As the new year approaches, people tend to think about goals they can accomplish to improve their lives. This may or may not be surprising to you, but many people opt for divorce. Their marriages have been in bad shape for so long that they have finally decided to just be done with it…. Read More »
Homeowners Insurance Nightmare in Florida
Homeowners insurance is often required if you refinance your home. It’s also a good thing to have in the event of a disaster such as a fire, tornado, hurricane, flood, or other weather event. In some cases, insurance can also protect against theft as well. However, in Florida, the process of even getting homeowners… Read More »
Probate Issues That Executors Face
Dealing with the death of a loved one is something we all have to face at some point. This may mean having to handle their estates. For many people, being named as an executor of an estate can be an honor. But it can also be a real headache. Being an executor means taking… Read More »