Monthly Archives: October 2024
Being Nice vs. Being Honest: Which is Better for Your Marriage?
When people marry, they are looking for mates who are nice to them. This is an obvious trait that everyone wants, because who wants to be with someone who treats them poorly. But many people also want honesty, and let’s be truthful, being honest and being nice don’t always go hand in hand. Sometimes… Read More »
Should I Wait Until After the Holidays to Get a Divorce?
Marriages are meant to last forever, but the truth is that they can end at any time. The hardest part, though, is knowing when exactly to pull the plug. When the breakdown happens right before the holidays, you may be concerned about the aftermath, especially if you have children. Should you start the divorce… Read More »
Divorce and Retirement After 50
Marriages end for a variety of reasons and at various stages. First marriages last for roughly seven years, hence the term “seven-year itch.” Others last for 10, 15, or 20 years. Marriages ending after 20 years used to be an anomaly, but it has become increasingly common since 1990. Divorces past 50 have been… Read More »
Why is Divorce Harder for Men Than Women?
Ending a marriage is never an easy task. It’s an emotional experience that can be a huge blow to one or both parties, especially if the divorce was unexpected or unwanted. However, men seem to take it harder. After all, women are typically the ones to initiate divorce. Women often know what they want,… Read More »
Rebuilding Your Self-Esteem After a Divorce
A divorce can end up being a positive experience, but it takes a while to feel that way. In the initial stages, a divorce can make you feel a lot of negative emotions. You may have negativity toward not only your spouse but yourself as well. For some, ending a marriage is like giving… Read More »